Getting to the roots of insecurities and self neglect: Part One

1.	I do not know where i belong/fit ( orphan spirit)y
2.	I do not know my unique significance
3.	I drift in an anchorless boat
4.	I am plagued by insecurities
5.	I find my identity in my work/performance
6.	I do not know how i am; i have identity confusion
7.	I mask my real self by adopting a different identity that will be accepted
8.	I sometimes become aggressively defensive
9	I am uncertain which choices to make
10	I do not have  a clear set of values that I live by
11	I do not have close souls mates ( intimate Friends) in my life
12	I do not have a clear purpose /calling in life